About Me

I'm a mother of four girls and one boy and I've got the greatest husband in the world-and I'd bet the farm on that one. We're a great team although he says he's moving out of the house as soon as all our girls are teenagers. We're very strong in our religion which is in The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. I draw strength from my religion and my family. I love life and am grateful to be surrounded by such great family and friends. I am gently reminded daily of the love and blessings that our Heavenly Father has for us. I live the life I always dreamed of having. I don't know how I was so blessed. Sometimes I feel undeserving to have the perfect life I always wanted. But I'm not complaining! I'm the luckiest girl in the world. Life goes up and life goes down, but even during the lowest so far, I'm still happy. Still know that I will have my family forever. Still know that my husband adores me and I him. Life is so good.

Wednesday, February 11, 2009

The Sugar Goal.

I'm still going strong on my no-sugar goal, are you? Aaron officially lasted a week. He came home with ice cream and it was over for him. I know of a couple of others who have started drinking their 'devil-water' (diet coke) again too. Oh look at the little pansies! :) Come on ladies, if you're gonna give up at least drink coke and not DIET coke. Yuck! You're drinking all that cancer-causing sweetener. You know I have to raz ya! I love you guys, even if you're not physically or mentally strong enough to keep up. Ha, ha, ha.  :)
I've been craving juice the most but haven't taken a sip. The valentine's candies are also calling my name but I won't cave! I've started reading my scriptures daily and even walking on my treadmill. I've decided I can't get on the computer until I'm done with both of those things. Hotmail, Facebook and blogs are my 'dirty little secrets' so I reward myself if I get my reading and walking done. We'll see how long it lasts. I'm hoping I can be strong with it. 
So we found out yesterday that the bank accepted the offer on this house. We've got until Feb. 23rd to find a new place to live. There's a house we're looking to rent in Highland or a guy in Heber offered to let us live in a house he just bought (for 6 months) if Aaron finishes the basement. We're trying to stay in Utah County until the baby is born and then who knows where we'll go after that. Life is definitely crazy right now but I hope we can look back on these days and these experiences someday with fondness and be able to laugh about it all. Some people say that financial burdens can hurt a marriage but I don't agree. If anything it has made me look at Aaron in a different light and love and appreciate him even more (I didn't think THAT was even possible). It has brought out his best qualities of hard work, dedication and perseverance. He works so hard to provide for us and I've been able to stand back and see the hand of the Lord in our lives. I'm in awe at the opportunities that have been opened up to us for work. We have grown together and have learned how we both cope with difficulties. We have learned to rely on Heavenly Father and have not been disappointed. It has been hard but I'm so grateful for the experience to live through it and the empathy I've gained for others. I'm so grateful to Aaron for being willing to wake up early in the morning to go to work and come home late at night, sweaty from a hard day's work. I know a lot of men would give up but he is so driven. I can see on his face and the proof in his sweat the love that he has for his family. How blessed we are to have him in our lives! I love and appreciate him so much and I don't think another man exists that's greater than him! He's truly one of my greatest heros! 
Well, this post got a little more personal than I had intended when I started. I only meant to talk about the sugar-free stuff and somehow it turned into that. I get a little emotional when I'm pregnant and just wanted to say how much I really do love and respect Aaron, he's my superman. I'm glad I get to walk through this life with him by my side.

7 comments:

Aly said...

Hey Bonnie- After the d&c, i just couldn't make it. I wasn't able to have anything solid for the rest of the night, so we got milkshake on the way home. It was deserved. So sorry. You are on your own!

Linda said...

Good for you Bonnie. You go girl. I enjoy your blog so much and learn so much from it. You are awesome.

bzmom24 said...

Behind every great man is a great woman!!

Unknown said...

and if they don't like you getting personal you can do what I always do. Say Neener Neener Neener! Its MY blog!
I am SO excited about the offer being excepted! WooT!
I NEED to talk to you BTW and my No sugar thing is going to start tomorrow actually and I may have to make a deal with you to overlook the week I am on my cruise.... Or I can just lie to you. Which do you prefer.

Ashtyn said...

Bonnie, you are a lucky woman to have a hard-working man. And Aaron is so lucky to have a woman who stands beside him through it all. We all learn a little more about ourselves when we have trials, and it is nice to look in the mirror and like the person looking back. My attitude is this: Bring it on, baby! I can take anything you throw at me, and be stronger in the end.

Please let me know when you guys are settled in your new place, and I will be saving these little boy things for you. And keep posting those belly shots, I love pregnant bellies (as long as it is not mine!!!! )

Lisa said...

I am sooooooo grateful for no-sugar products especially diet coke or I wouldn't have any treats being a diabetic!!!!!!!! I am so excited about your offer! You going to move up by me? Do you have any idea how much fun we would have! Oh I miss the good old days. Love you!

Anonymous said...

Bonnie, so I didn't know you were starting this until I talked to you the other day. So, I'm officially in. Starting February 27th. I'll be there with you until the end. Check in on me tomorrow and see how I'm doing. Thanks for the motivation!